The Sisterhood of Messy Hearts #Grace

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She was the funniest girl in school with the coolest clothes. Everyone wanted to sit by her at lunch, but she decided who did. She formed a club and chosen members met on Friday nights at the skating rink.

Then her parents got a divorce. She told fewer jokes. The trips to the skating rink stopped.

I found her crying one day, and my sixth grade heart hurt because her world was falling apart. I could have been a good friend. Not like the one’s talking behind her back … but she wouldn’t let me.

Just like the popular girl in sixth grade, big girls have holes in their hearts too. We all have secrets, heartaches, betrayals and shameful details.

Wary of trust, a wall goes up blocking sweet connection on a Jesus level.

That’s exactly what the Devil wants when it comes to sisters in Christ.

When he separates us … he causes unity to fade.

With the fading of unity … the kingdom’s work is stalled.

So what is the solution?  What can we do?

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If we really want change … we have to be willing to change.

The scriptures say …

“Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than themselves.” Philippians 2:3

The Greek interpretation for the word esteem means to lead … or go before. This made me think about not only putting others before myself … but taking the lead in loving my sisters first … before they love me.

I ache for this holy sisterhood to bond through the beautiful redemption process … to be real on a come to Jesus level … to find sincere connection and genuine grace.

What could happen if we all take the lead to love first?

What would that look like?

Perhaps a good starting place is putting our sister’s feelings before our own, letting selfishness fall to the wayside.

What if we put away all unfavorable perceptions and think only the best about our sister … instead of judging her in specific measures?

What if we forget previous clashes and renew our thoughts?

What affirmation for her if we’d speak truth in kindness, encouraging and praying for her.

What if we keep secrets in perfect trust and serve her in ways glorifying to our Father?

And because we are terribly flawed and we will fail her … we humbly ask for forgiveness … as we forgive.

You see in order for this sisterhood of messy hearts to flourish in Christ … grace must go both ways.

Oh what beauty is found in grace.

What hope is exchanged in love.

What redemption is mined from humility.

The meekness of a messy sisterhood can be a beautiful tapestry of merciful grace … if only we’ll take the lead to love first.

So tell me sister … will you take the lead?

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6 thoughts on “The Sisterhood of Messy Hearts #Grace

  1. Wow those are challenging words Melanie! I’ve been challenged and encouraged from 2 different source recently to look for the good in other women. I know that it is not coincidence, it’s our Great God bringing this to my attention. I’m too quick to judge on appearance only. All women have beauty! Thank you for writing those words that I needed to read !

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    • Thank you for your encouragement Sweet Dixie! You bless me friend! I think we have all been guilty of judging before we really know he truth! It is a struggle! Prayer helps me filter my mind and think the right thoughts! It is a constant and intentional effort! Blessings to you sweet lady! Thank you for stopping by! 😘🙏🏻☝🏻️

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  2. Hi Melanie, I haven’t been to your blog in so long. Your graphics and words are beautiful! I want to be one of the ones who take the lead. May God give us grace to extend and help us receive it too. We need our sisters!

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  3. Oh Melanie! This is my one of my resolutions for this year. I don’t want anyone who knows me to ever feel like I have excluded them. I know how that feels and want to do whatever I can to be kind and inclusive. Thank you for this gentle reminder! Love you friend.

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